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If you haven’t heard of David Deangelo “77 Laws,” this is one of his cornerstone programs that really brings “tough love” to a whole new meaning.
David organizes these “laws” in his 3.5-hour course into three main buckets:
1. Concepts/Paradigms
2. Principles
3. Techniques
I originally digested this material as an audio book a decade ago (2008) after my heart was ripped out of my chest by my ex.
It was a rough couple of years…
After watching the video version a couple of days ago, I found myself taking notes, even as an engaged man!
If you’ve ever read any of my other reviews on David’s teachings, you know I’m a fan of how much value he’s able to pack into each program.
I look at David Deangelo “77 Laws” as the menu to the “main dish.”
Let me tell you what I mean…
Name: 77 Laws
Type: Video Series
Teacher: David Deangelo
Company: Double Your Dating
Exposing The Tip Of The Iceberg
With “77 Laws,” concepts set the stage for techniques.
It is done in a “rapid fire” style execution, where these “tough love” concepts initially are meant to bulldoze your currently mindset about women.
I imagine it’s very similar to how basic training in the military is designed to break you down – then build you back up.
It’s not so much about how David is delivering the material, but more about how I felt about myself when I realized I had been doing the opposite with women all along…
For instance, Law #6 says to “Move your frame of reference inside.” That is to say, don’t seek validation from other people.
Oh no. This is gonna get rough…
I saw David as the person to help me pick up the pieces and then rebuild myself into a strong, confident man who now “gets it.”
David Deangelo “77 Laws” is like a buffet. It pretty much touches on a little bit of everything when it comes to women and dating.
Back in 2008, I would listen to the audio version at the gym. David encourages you to go through each of his programs 3 times to fully digest the material.
His voice tone is calming, kind of how you’d imagine a great hypnotist sounding.
When you make the decision to handle your dating game, it’s a big move. It can be overwhelming.
That’s because all the work you do on yourself is front-loaded, meaning changing your mindset is where the real heavy lifting is.
But once you alter your thinking, embed some core principles and apply a few techniques, the knowledge is with you forever.
The Rules Of The Game Remain The Same
Only one thing has changed about the dating scene since 2008: the introduction of dating apps.
But that’s about it.
Above all, women still don’t want you to buy them things or kiss their ass.
Going through David Deangelo “77 Laws” again this past week reminds me that the “rules” have remained the same for ions.
As you move from his main concepts to his more focused principles, that’s where he helps convert knowledge into action.
Like Law #27, “Become selfish so you can become generous.” Not in an arrogant way, but take care of yourself so you can be there for others.
Things like this begin to completely rip out that “hard-wiring” we were born with and tap into our subconscious.
How about Law #48, “Stop idealizing relationships.” That’s because no relationship or woman is going to fix your life.
Putting the effort in to learn and adopt even a few of these ideas would garner new and positive results for any man.
What I could no longer live with was the alternative: being just another guy that doesn’t get it…
David Deangelo “77 Laws” is a great way to tee off the process, but it isn’t perfect.
Some Downsides To Point Out
While I’m pointing out the good, I have to balance it out with the not-so-good:
1. Firstly, if you’re looking for a “deep dive” course, this isn’t it.
David Deangelo “77 Laws” is more of a road map that points in the direction at more of those nuanced details you may be seeking. You have to know the bigger “bucket” items first.
2. Certain concepts are intriguing, but could have used many more examples to explain them.
The problem is the format and pace of this program does not allow for too many details. He moves it along quickly.
3. When it comes to the technique “laws,” I wanted to see those in action.
He certainly paints a clear picture of what the technique looks like being implemented. I just wanted to see the darn thing implemented, at least sometimes.
4. Finally, David’s sense of humor is just off from my own.
I mention this in just about every review I’ve done on his programs. He always manages to slip in some awful jokes that miss the mark.
If you can focus on the content of his words, these four negatives are simply a mild distraction in the grand scheme of things…
Why David Deangelo “77 Laws” Brings The Heat
Finally, let’s get to the reasons you should probably check this program out:
1. A Price Of $89.95 For Nearly 3.5 Hours Of Goodies – If you liked “Double Your Dating,” “77 Laws” is your next step.
You can only imagine the amount of value that’s packed into just one hour let alone 3.5 hours. Money well spent.
2. If You Know The Principles, You Know The Game – David has a way of making you feel confident after each program.
It’s almost like having a personal “wing man” with you at all times to apply the lessons. He’s got your back.
3. He Provides Several Ways You Can Take ACTION – Concepts and lines are fine, but how do I really do it?
David is a master at holding you accountable for implementing his material immediately. All you need is momentum.
4. This Stuff Works When You Work It. Period. – After my split with my ex in 2008, I worked David’s material hard.
I changed my thinking, went out to bars and other places and had all kinds of success in my 20s. It really works!
You’ve Got To See It To Be It
In conclusion, David Deangelo “77 Laws” is the catalyst program that moves you from theory and “inner game” to taking action.
When my heart was broken and I felt like a massive failure with women, it’s a hard place from which to start.
Certainly, I didn’t really want to see how big my problem actually was.
I was very resistant. In short, my goal was to avoid more pain at all costs.
David unveils the truth, pats you on the back and then basically tells you “we’re gonna get you right, don’t you worry.”
Click on the video below to see what a few other guys are saying about David Deangelo “77 Laws”…
Ready to check out “77 Laws?” Just click here to be taken directly to David’s 77 Laws program page.
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Yeah I am in top self help in a big way. I have broken myself and re built the pieces in to a stronger me as well.
I also had my heart broken by an ex fiance. I might purchase David’s 77 laws to get back on the horse (as to speak).
Ryan thank-you very much for introducing me to David Deangelo’s 77 laws.
I watched the video and and really happy I will learn all the points to really be successful with women.
when you purchased David’s course, was the course easy to follow and understand? I need to be able to understand the course well.
Sorry to hear about your split, David. “77 Laws” might definitely reaffirm some things you already know to be true about yourself and accelerate the healing process.
The program is very straight-forward and easy to follow along. David introduces many thought-provoking ideas that are meant to disrupt your old programming with women. It’s so easy a middle-schooler could follow along.
Either way, I wish you a quick and thorough healing timeline, sir 🙂 -R
Thanks Ryan for sharing us the details of the David Deangel’so “77 Laws”. It seems very interesting. Since I have been a regular reader of your articles and I trust your views, your positive feedback on David Deangelo’s “77 Laws” makes it all the more interesting for me. However, the price seems to be on a higher side. Do they offer discounts?
Thanks for being a regular reader, Gee!
I can understand your initial reaction to the $89.95 price for “77 Laws,” but if you’ve ever taken any of David’s other courses, you’d see the level of value that comes with each of his programs.
For me, the $90 was a no-brainer because I knew I would immediately put his information into action. The great thing is, all of his programs come with a 30-day money back guarantee, so if you’re not totally sure his teachings are for you, that’s one way your investment is safeguarded.
Hope that helps! -R
this sounds like a good program for people that may need confidence for dating or after a bad break up. Bieber at the end. If th day, personally I think if you put God first in your life, respect yourself and women, and be yourself always — then the right one will come your way.
I think it’s only when you try to change who you are and not be a respectable guy women would want, is when you’ll find it hard to find to date a girl and keep her.
But I’m glad to hear this course helped you out, and I’ll tell some of my friends about it too. Thank you.
Hey Michael!
It’s true – There aren’t many reliable resources to help men whom are coming out of bad breakups, in particular. With my split with my ex, I need a series of affirmations that I wasn’t 100% to blame for her breaking it off. I think that’s speaks to your point about putting God first in your life, because that practice will serve to heal you every time.
David’s courses are just another vessel for that. Hearing his voice over and over via audiobook really served to build me up again back in 2008 and that healing continues for many other men, I’m sure, even until today.
Thanks for stopping by! -R
Hey Ryan
It sounds as if this is a definite reality check type program which is probably a good thing. Too often we are deluded either by choice or through ignorance when it comes to our own behavior.
Besides helping one with intimate relationships, which of course is its intention, it sounds as if the principles might be applicable to all relationships, in which case the program will provide a great deal more value than one might first imagine.
Mark
Totally, Mark!
I like that – a “reality check.” Lord knows we all need those probably many more times than we actually end up receiving them!
Sometimes putting that spotlight on yourself can be the last thing you want to do, but it may be these best thing to set you free. Appreciate this thought! -R